Embodied inquiries for transforming your experience in rope bondage

Shrinking spaces

For me, and for Merriam-Webster, “Bondage” means slavery, means restraining someone, taking away their freedom, their power. This is a […]

Own your limits

I feel that the “cancel culture” we have created in our society, our focus on the conflict, on being “wrong”, […]

A shameful story

I’ve got long hair. I go to hairdresser. He is a good one and always overbooked. He squeezes me into […]

Consent in rope

A short guide on how to negotiate consent in rope and get what you really want Consent in rope is […]

Good Pain vs. Bad Pain

Three Questions strategy to navigate your rope experience and stay safe Pain naturally belongs to the experience of going out […]

Boundaries and Limits

When we hear “boundaries” or “limits,” perhaps we think of something negative like a “restriction,” or “obstacle”, something that  limits […]