My Rope Studies, Part Three
So I went on my rope journey, and I made some discoveries. And the first thing I discovered was my resistance. I have this general […]
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My Rope Studies, Part Two
In 2015 I started with professional Sexological Bodywork training. SexBod for people to learn about themselves and their sexuality and how to support them with […]
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My Rope Studies, Part One
About 12 years ago I was tied for the first time… It was a long journey from what it was for the first time to […]
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On resilience
Resilience is not a special skill, it is a part of our lives… An endless cycle of circumstances changing and us trying to find our […]
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Mental Impact in Seme-nawa
Whenever we talk about the impact in semenawa, we usually focus on the physical challenge, which of course is very present… But today I want […]
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On “healing” in ropes
A while ago I gave an interview to someone who is writing a book about BDSM as a healing modality. I think it will be […]
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Seeking liberation in restraint
My teacher Joseph Kramer found it humorous that I’m seeking liberation in restraint. Well, the rope – the restraint – is just a vehicle. The […]
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Semenawa Couples: stories we write together
Personally, I love to watch long term couples tie. They are the best players. It is as if they already have a “foundation”, a thick […]
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Tying as Inquiry vs. Imposition
This is something that I pondered about alredy for a while and finally was able to pin it after hearing Steve James talking about something […]
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Kinbaku Rituals: how to create a space where play and intimacy are welcomed?
I’m not into DS, and neither is my partner. Role-playing was never my thing. But Kinbaku space is not casual for me. It is sacred… […]
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