On “healing” in ropes
A while ago I gave an interview to someone who is writing a book about BDSM as a healing modality. I think it will be […]
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Breathe, my dear…
It will be short today. I have gone through a period of anxiety and I feel a bit drained. I wanted to take this opportunity […]
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Seeking liberation in restraint
My teacher Joseph Kramer found it humorous that I’m seeking liberation in restraint. Well, the rope – the restraint – is just a vehicle. The […]
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What is “Soma”
Thanks to Scot Kinbaku who said that since I keep referring to “soma” during our workshops, I should explain it, so here it comes 🙂 […]
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Nerve safety in rope bondage
Nerve safety is a difficult topic to write about because it is so subjective what people feel inside of themselves and also it is a […]
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Do you want to feel more?
I take weekly somatic classes with FlourishSomatics. This week in class Jess said something that stuck with me and I’ve been pondering about it ever […]
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Posture in ropes
Another question & answer to a fellow rope bottom i like to share with you here. You can send me your own questions on info@ropesomatics.com! […]
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Safety Part 3. Habits and strategies.
Safety is one of the aspects that we learn early in life and then over time we develop “strategies”: how do we establish safety in […]
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Safety Part 2. Our bodies remember.
Continue with my thoughts on safety. Safety in ropes, safety in life, safety strategies. Where does our safety behavior come from? Every situation has an […]
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Safety in Ropes. Part One
I got to talk more about safety because it’s a foundation for being experimental, playful and spontaneous in ropes. It’s really about being comfortable to […]
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